My Wife is a Blessing

Sometimes I listen to other men talk about how wonderful their mate is and I am so happy for them. Then I look at my own wife and it's hard not to tell the world how incredible she is. What makes her so incredible? She puts up with an idiot like me, I do not deserve the woman God placed in my path on a small island in the middle of the Atlantic ocean almost 17 years ago. Last year I trampled on her heart, violated the sanctity of our marriage and shattered the trust of our children. We have had an incredible year as move closer together under God's grace and mercy.
I flew out of town early in the morning on my birthday last week. Later that day I got an email from her containing one thing she loved about me for every year of my life. When I arrived home I was given to golfing gift certificates with a hand-written note that indicated I would now have time to play gold on the weekends instead of finishing the deck. We went out back and she showed me the wonderful completed project. Unknown to me she had been planning for a week to have our deck project finished when I arrived home. Anyone who has ever tried to hire a contractor can sympathize with trying to get someone immediately, let alone that she wanted a massive amount of work done in < 3 days. I'm the guy that runs to the grocery store and stands in line with 100 other dudes on Valentine's day, our anniversary, or her birthday.
Father God, help me to walk in a manner worthy of the calling which I have received.

Pictures here: https://picasaweb.google.com/griffse/DeckProject#

Guitar Center Knoxville

I like to look at the used gear every now and then in Guitar Center so I headed in the other day and noticed they have a new sign posted on their door. It says no weapons allowed and show a picture of an automatic rifle, handgun, and a knife. I decided not to go in since I was carrying my weapon at the time. I called them and asked the girl who answered the phone if this included all knives, she proceeded to ask how big was my knife. I told her I have one with a 7" fixed blade and one 3.5" folding and I was just curious. She said "7" doesn't sound too big" and I almost giggled into the phone. That's my Ka-Bar and it's a huge knife. She transferred me to the manager and he confirmed they intended all knives and was cool about it when I told him I wouldn't be frequenting their establishment any longer.

Can anyone explain the logic of the sign? To me it seems as effective as putting a sign up that says "No Robbery Allowed on Premises." A sign banning weapons won't stop a criminal but a customer that is armed might.

SuperBowl XLV

We had some friends over Sunday to watch the game and what a game! I wanted the Steelers to win going into the game but thought it was great to see Aaron Rodgers get a ring that he definitely deserved. The steelers just didn't look prepared the whole game and when players had to dig deep, Green Bay answered the call, well done to the Packers.

On the flip side, the "entertainment" portion of the broadcast was the worst I have ever seen. Maybe three good commercials but to be fair I did have to change the channel several times because of inappropriate content like the commercial for "Just Go With It", Every Go Daddy spot, the teleflora ad, and maybe one or two others. We had three kids under the age of 10 and two teenage boy in the room; it's disappointing that we can't just let the game go and we have to guard the remote during a football game. With respect to the National Anthem, Christina Aguilera can sing well, but if you forget the words you will go down as sucking. That song doesn't need anyone's vocal gymnastics, leave it alone. When people flub that song I feel it in my gut, very disappointing.

Now, the halftime show. Let me admit I have still never heard the Black-eyed peas perform in a normal situation. They suck, bad. Half of the problem definitely wasn't them, the sound was total crap and I am sure some dude got canned. The saving moments had to be Slash and Usher stepping in for a moment to show people what a musician can do. I went to you tube and watched some of the old performances and have to say that Michael Jackson in 1993, U2 in 2002, and Prince are still the best I have seen. I don't even listen to their music but their shows seemed to really hit the nail on the head.

The suckage of the entertainment made the game that much better.

Movie Review (Secretariat)

It's becoming progressively difficult to find an actual family movie that's clean. Hollywood seems to think we need some type of swearing, crude joke, or filth so that the grown ups will be interested. Last Saturday Secretariat was at the "dollar" theater so we all packed up and headed out.

I don't know anything about horses or horse racing. I know that every time I look at a horse, their beauty is inspiring. This movie provided me with a window back in time to watch something amazing. The movie seemed very real with family issues, sadness, perseverance, and triumph. The cast was spectacular with Diane Lane and John Malkovich providing most of the delivery but every role played to perfection. The big name actors did not overtake the lesser names which happens in so many movies.



Watching the audience I saw people laugh, cry, and applaud at the end of the movie. Disney did a great job with this and our hwole family , from 40 to 4, loved it.

Interesting facts:
1.Secretariat's record for the Kentucky Derby and the Belmont Stakes still stand.

2.He accelerated through the entire mile of the Kentucky Derby.

3.The Beyer Speed Figure used to rate performance has a record of 134 if it existed when Secretariat ran he would have earned a 139.

4.The margin of victory, 31 lengths, for the Belmont Stakes is still the widest margin of victory.

Victory

I remember the first time I was asked to play this song our music minister gave me about 10 minutes warning and I sat there wondering how to pull this off with a single acoustic guitar. I asked God to use that moment for Him, and that any success or failure in my musical ability would honor His kingdom.

A friend passed away this week and as I spoke with his widow, sons, and daughter I was so encouraged by their attitude. Chris Tomlin wrote this song as a modern version of "It Is Well" by Horatio Spafford. As believers we will hurt when we lose someone but we stand over the grave in victory because of Christ.

We all know that song but do you know about Mr. Spafford's life and the circumstances in which he wrote it? If not, check it out: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Horatio_Spafford

"When sorrows like sea billows roll.." I once heard a preacher say this was written at the location where his daughters perished. Horatio Spafford knew how to worship.

We lost a good man yesterday

The attached song is one I play when my heart is grieving but my spirit is rejoicing. When I saw Mercy Me perform it the first time they shared the heart-wrenching story of how it had been written and it seems appropriate today.
Jason Kennard died last night in a car accident. When I was in the praise band at The Church at Sterchi Hills, his wife Lisa would always ask for prayer that the Lord would convict Jason and he would be saved. During this time, we built a new building and had a week-long revival to celebrate the opening. During the revival Jason came to hear one of the messages and received Christ as his savior. It was one of the greatest moments God has allowed me to witness. Shortly after this, Lisa was in Florida and Jason "dropped dead" of a massive stroke while home alone with his young children. I remember clearly sitting in the ER waiting room at St. Mary's hospital waiting for Lisa to return home from Florida so that Jason's life support could be removed. While we waited, and prayed, Jason showed some level of responsiveness which then prevents life support from being cancelled. Also during that time, one of Jason's friends contacted Lisa and told her that God had told her that Jason would be raised up from this because the Lord had plans for him. She quoted Jeremiah 29:11 "..For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."(NIV) I had the wonderful opportunity to spend every afternoon for the next two weeks watching Jason be healed by the hand of God. Each day he became more responsive and gave everyone a visualization of faith. Jason beacame a faithful servant of the Lord, leading his family and being the man God had called him to be. He was a walking miracle and one of the examples God showed me of walking through the fire of life's trials and emerging as a better man on the other side.
Please keep Lisa, Zack, Whitney, and Seth in your prayers. We know that Jason has been raised up by the Father and healed but our earthly hearts still hurt for the man we will be missing.
Grace and Peace to you.

Comcast Customer Service and the BCS Bowl Games

So it's only fair that if I don't like the games being on ESPN I needed to also alert Comcast that their lineup is part of the problem.

Here's what I said:

Dear Sir or Madam,

I was disappointed to learn that none of the BCS bowl games are
available to me. I pay only for the limited cable package because of the
amount of trash that is generally on television and excessive channels I
do not want. Because of the way channel selection works, I would have to
pay almost $60/mo just to get ESPN which I am not willing to do. This
year my friends and I will be unable to watch any available college
games. We all enjoy football a great deal but aren''t willing to have to
purchase 50 channels we do not want in our homes. Thank you for your
time.

Regards,

They wrote back quickly:

Thank you for contacting Comcast Cable E-mail Support.


I thank you for allowing me this opportunity to assist you. Captain Dude, as
your service representative today, I want you to know that your
satisfaction is of my topmost priority. I will be more than happy to
assist you with your concern. I assure you that you have reached the
right person and rest assured that all information included on this
correspondence will resolved your concern.

I am sorry to hear you are having issues with your current service as
you are unable to watch some of your favorite sports game. Captain Dude, I can
understand why you would be upset, I would feel the same way if I was in
the situation you are in. I sincerely apologize for the inconvenience
this has caused you. Rest assured that your concern will be taken care
of.

Captain Dude, it is a regret to informed that ESPN channel is available for
Comcast Digital Cable package and higher tier only. Therefore, in order
to view ESPN channel, you will need to upgrade your cable service. We
have several different packages for you to pick from; however, we do not
offer a la carte programming where you can pick channels that you would
like to include on a certain package you are subscribed to. If we do
begin to offer a la carte programming, we will notify all of our
customers about the package changes.

To check on available services, packages, and rates in your area that
best suits your budget and needs, please contact us at
http://www.comcastsupport.com/chat

Or, 1-800-XFINITY (934-6489) during office hours.

I suggest you have the following information available when calling or
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short as possible:

- Name on the account
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payment on the account

Captain Dude, I thank you for taking the time out from your busy schedule to
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have chosen Comcast as your service provider and we thank you for your
business.

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Wow, "Elaine" (Hello, my name is Peggy) writes terribly. It's unfortunate that the only solutions are giving someone more money. I pay enough and I am about to get rid of your "service" altogether. Yeah, I chose to disseminate this so that others can make an informed decision.

Disney has "stolen" all bowl games.

I wasn't paying attention last year when ESPN outbid everyone and got the rights to all BCS bowl games for the next four years. Disney, ABC, and ESPN are all the same so they could certainly choose to show a game or two on network television. In what's becoming the typical greedy american way, they aren't. Factor this in with your Comcast rates going up on purpose again, and the perpetual channel shuffling to make sure you have to buy channels you don't want and some folks simply can't watch the games this year. I realize I chose this predicament but thought I would write to ESPN so they would know I was disappointed. Here are the emails:

Dear Sir or Madam,

I was disappointed to learn that none of the BCS bowl games are available to me. I pay only for the limited cable package because of the amount of trash that is generally on television and excessive channels I do not want. Because of the way channel selection works, I would have to pay almost $60/mo just to get ESPN which I am not willing to do. This year my friends and I will be unable to watch any available college games. We all enjoy football a great deal but aren't willing to have to purchase 50 channels we do not want in our homes. Thank you for your time.

Regards,

I felt this was a reasonable observation and that I would receive some kind of sympathetic yet unwavering response. Here's what I got:

Thanks for contacting ESPN and giving us an opportunity to respond.

All BCS games will be available to almost 100 million homes on ESPN as well as through ESPN3.com and ESPN Radio. We are confident that fans will find and enjoy these games, the culmination of our year-round commitment to college football.

Sincerely,

Robert
ESPN Viewer Response

I put the selected text in bold as I felt "Robert" was implying that I am not a real fan because I am not willing to pay exorbitant amounts to watch sports. This is not correct, I enjoy sports but have better things to do with my money. Unfortunately, I feel I may be removing cable entirely from my home in the near future and will probably only have a television for family-type movie nights. My girls having to watch Viagra ads during kid's shows is kind of telling me things won't be getting any better. Oh, by the way I wrote "Robert" (Hello, my name is Peggy) back and said that previously the only reason I didn't have ESPN was the fact that it would cost me a minimum of $60/month (and that stupid cable box). I let him know that his arrogant response earned them another reason.